What is the reaction that others give you when you walk in the room? Do they stop, do the y notice you, do they stare? What's their body language like? How does it make you feel?
Studies show people naturally gravitate to attractive people. Why? They draw more attention to themselves, give off certain energy and inspire others, all by the way they look. You don't have to accept the fact that looking a certain way comes with perks and incentives but it does! Let's go a little further into detail with the tree sections below.
Demand Attention & Respect
Even if your style statement last 30 sec or 30 mins, they saw you and they are going to respect you because they are under the assumption that you respect yourself. For example, men are going to approach you according to the message that your style is ultimately giving. If you are dressed like you just rolled out of bed, threw on some sweats and a t-shirt two sizes too big with a pair of $2 flip flop, trust me when I tell you, you will be approached that way. They won't respect you if you can't even respect yourself enough to pull it together before leaving the house for the sake of looking good for yourself.
Now, don't get me wrong, there are some men or people for that matter who will respect you either way; but the bottom line is, love yourself and let that reflect through you style. The Power Looks Worksheet is perfect for putting good use to your wardrobe and define your style statement.
People Want to Get to Know You
Anyone in direct connection with their personal style is interested hands down! I don't care who they are, how old they are, what they do for a living or where they are going. But trust me when I say, they will be noticed no seen, drawing you in not pushing you away or remembered and not forgotten.
People want to know more about you; it doesn't matter much about what they want to know, they just want more. Most women may want to ask you about your style, what you are wearing, where you got it and how much you paid. Also keep in mind that they are going to assume you live a certain type of lifestyle. It really doesn't matter; just know that those doors are open for more conversation, which means networking,collaborating, possible partnerships or even new relationships.
Gives You the Opportunity to Prove Yourself
Understand and accept that some people are going to assure that you are all about your looks and not much brains. They even often believe that you may be afraid to get your hands dirty and grind hard. Now that you have their attention and they want to know more about who you are....show em'!
I'm a firm believer that with beauty come brains, hard work and unlimited inner strength. Be confident in your abilities and show out! If they doubt your or simply want to see more of what you can do, give it to them and in an unapologetic way! You never know what opportunities you will face for the day or who you may cross paths with; so they need to remain constantly slayed is key.
The Style Development Guide is perfect during your style transition as you use fashion and style to connect while building professionally or personally relationships.